No more cane!

There is no more cane in our house. We have throw away after HX attended the Good Father Course. We almost give up and buy new cane coz Vera has driven us crazy. She was untolerable and misbehave always. The most untolerable action from her is she bullied her brother like push, beat, bit him. We talked to her many times, punished her to kneel on the floor also no use. We always pray that she can quickly grow up and understand that it is not right to do so. Recently, she has changed quite a lot. I notice that we seldom punish or scold her because she misbehave..she is able to control herself which we always remind her to. To our surprise, the little boy pick up all the bad habits from her. Now, another round of guiding, teaching and nagging. Thank God that I only have 2 children..haa..haa..